After thinking about some of the different kinds of female spankee last time, I’ve been thinking a little more about this.
I guess spanking is different for everyone but for me it’s the ultimate in kind physical control.. i.e. its powerplay with contact that does not come close to leaving any permanent damage. There are other feelings and emotions such as humiliation and pain, but for me spanking is the ultimate form of dominance of one person over another. After all, this person is so much in control that they don’t even need restraints.
So, for me, this works best when the person on the bottom is not naturally submissive. This can mean FemDom when a tiny girl spanks a much bigger man, like on Clare Spanks Men.. but I prefer the strong, confident lady, who may well be a little bitchy, getting her comeuppance. She might be a switch, or better would be a dominant female who took a wrong turn and would not normally submit.
So, this situation where you have a kind of power struggle between the reluctant spankee and her spanker seems to add spice to the scene. After All, this isn’t just something that happens every day. The bitchy lady would generally be barking orders to everyone else and generally being dominant, so this new submission being forced on her makes her uncomfortable and angry until she gives in and takes her punishment submissively. It’s that transformation, the tipping of the scales, that is so appealing.
This is very similar to the attitude adjustment of a bratty 18 year old lady, as perfected by Samantha Woodley in this post.
The idea of a female teacher spanking a female pupil, then the principal having to dish out the same punishment on the teacher is just perfect. The bitchier and stricter the teacher, the better. There you would have not one but two adjustments, the second of which being the biggest transformation because we have already seen that she is dominant. This even works in a office where corporal punishment is commonplace for the naughty secretaries until the strict HR manageress takes it too far and needs her medicine.
But, it also works with two ladies who may be fighting with each other. The losing mom gets a spanking and then gets her revenge on the other, like in this post.
Anyway, to cut a long story short, this is why I like sites like My Spanking Roommate. With that site you have plenty of twists and turns of strong, confident women getting spanked and spanking other ladies.. all wrapped up in a soap opera so there are subtle hints as to possible future spankings and each spanking means a little bit more because of everything that has happened up to that point.
For me if I don’t know why the spanking is happening, the reason for it, the spanking hardly matters at all. This can be through some kind of plot or even if it is just a photo from a spanking photo, like on Kane Magazine, for example, if there are clues in the clothing and/or other visual clues such as a broken vase or half-empty bottle of wine it makes it all make sense and I’m happy.
Anyway, back to more spanking next time…